Little Mercy James has not had a good start in life.
 Not only did this poor Malawian child suffer the loss of her mother in infancy; she was placed in an orphanage because  her father was too poor to care for Mercy.
 So, at a tender age, she  has had  to contend  with life threatening poverty, the childhood trauma of being motherless and of not living  with  her natural family.
Then  came  Madonna into  her life!
Was this  the much needed  break ; the new beginning which the merciful God  sent into  this sad situation?
Madonna must have  seen "something" in little Mercy to make her choose that  child out  of  all the children in the orphanage.
 Maybe Mercy's life-story touched a chord in the millionairess  superstar's heart . But don't  all the  children in that home  have  similar  or  even  worse  tales of  woe than Mercy James? 
Something must  have qualified  Mercy James for the "royalty's" attention.
One  of  the first words children learn to say , in any language is "NO!".
When most children meet a  stranger, even one offering them gifts; and the stranger  says "Come here, cutey!", the normal initial response from the child  would be to say "No!". Most children  would run away and observe the stranger  from  a safe distance; usually  hiding  behind  a person familiar  to them . 
 
Not only was Mercy  picked out , she accepted  to be  cuddled  by  Madonna.
She  could have said "NO!"and stayed  away  from Madonna .
As a  child ,Mercy couldn't have sensed that this strange -looking lady has pots,no, not pots ,a MINT of money . Loads and loads of the stuff!
Even if someone told her that Madonna was a superstar; how  could  a child  know the  difference between rich  and  poor, between a  Malawian and a foreigner or care a hoot whether Madonna was single, divorced seven times over or "happily" married?
What this poor little girl could sense was that Madonna's presence lit up her world  whenever she visited  her. Mercy got enough kind  words and cuddles from Madonna which every  baby craves for . 
The little girl could  sense the genuineness which all babies and animals  are instinctively drawn to . So , with time, Mercy James bonded with not only Madonna , but  with her other children .Even to the extent of  calling Madonna ,"Mummy".
Madonna has being stopped by a Malawian court from adopting Mercy James because she is not a Malawian resident.
Apart  from the court ruling , members of  Mercy's family and others have  objected because they  see Madonna's desire to adopt Mercy  James as "theft"or "sale" of their beloved daughter! 
Others say Madonna is unqualified  because she is a single mother , a serial  divorcee; while some say "these people think they  can come  here and use their  money to do as they  like!"
 
 Really ? This,truly,is amazing stuff!
Madonna doesnot NEED to steal  or  purchase  any child. She knew the girl is  a Malawian child.At the right time,she would tell Mercy and David about  their ancenstry. 
Right now , I empathize  with her because her good intentions have  been misunderstood; for the second  time. 
"Children are better off growing in their own natural community,with their natural  family!"  Says  who? 
How would a happy little girl, well cared for in a loving  family know she is "not growing up in her natural community"?
Where were Mercy James'"natural family and  community" when she was placed in  a home? What  did the "respectable happily married, never-divorced and holier-than-holy people" in the community do about her plight before Madonna , the serial divorcee took an in interest in her? 
Do  people know what growing up  in a home does to a person's psyche?
Which is worse; "purchase" and "theft" by  a wealthy serial divorcee/"sinner" or life in a children's home?
Madonna suitability  as a mother is not in question .Despite  her hectic schedule, she makes time for her three children.
If she was not  suitable ,right now, I would  have  been writing  about how  to prevent unsuitable persons from adopting  children!
Now , little Mercy is crying  for her new mummy. She is  distraught  and  bewildered. So are Madonna and  her other children especially David  Banda.
For them , they would  go on with their lives but Mercy  James is back to square one.
Do people realise  that "these people who think because they  have money" had  other choices and still have choices  of going  elsewhere to adopt a child?
Why did Madonna  choose a Malawian children home? She could have  gone else where.
Despite  what  the the western press beams to world  and the TV pictures aired regularly about "unending wars, disease, hunger  and poverty" in Africa and  Asia; these two  continents are not the only places where such  problems  exist. 
There are countries in the so called "developed world" where excruciating poverty, unusual and  baffling  diseases, wars,serial  murders , slums , filth and serious hunger exist!
Social problems abound in affluent  countries  like the USA , Great Britain and in Europe. Even here, millions  of  children die from childhood diseases before their first  birth day; millions are poor,malnourished, hungry and live in Children Homes, just  as in Africa and Asia
Madonna could have  decided to adopt a child from any country in the world and in most countries, she would be welcome with open arms.
Divine Favour manifesting upon the lives of David Banda  and Mercy James attracted Madonna to them; made her to single them out of  all the  millions  of  needy  children in the whole world. 
David Banda is home-free; settled  for life . May the good Lord deliver Mercy James. Amen.
Is someone able  to do something reading this? Is it possible to care enough about this girl's emotions and future; CARE ENOUGH  to reconsider and  rescind this  court ruling, please?
The law was made for man , and  not man for the law. Mark 2:27
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